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E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial

1982 · Movie · 115 min · PG

A−Parent’s Cut Grade

Primary lesson · Empathy can overcome fear of the unfamiliar

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Why It’s Worth Watching

E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial uses a child's friendship with an alien as a way to explore empathy, loneliness, family disruption, responsibility, and the instinct to fear what we do not understand. Elliott's bond with E.T. also gives families a memorable way to discuss helping someone vulnerable, keeping trust, handling separation, and why compassion can matter even when adults or institutions react with suspicion.

Who it's for

Ages & Chapters

Suggested viewing age

5+

Best learning window

6–12

Best discussion ages

8–13

Best chapterSchool AgeAges 6–8

Before you press play

Parent Guidance

Heads up level
Moderate

Content notes

Family separation, illness, government pursuit, frightening medical scenes, and emotional farewell.

Context for parents

The emotional intensity rises significantly late in the film; children sensitive to separation or illness may need reassurance.

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Era
1980s
Language
English
Origin
United States

What it teaches

Lessons & Learning Areas

Primary lesson

Empathy can overcome fear of the unfamiliar

Secondary lessons

FriendshipFamily disruptionEmpathyGriefOutsidersResponsibility

Strongest learning areas

Character & ValuesFamily & RelationshipsLife Skills & Independence

After the credits

Discussion Questions

  1. 1

    Why does Elliott trust E.T. before the adults do?

  2. 2

    How does Elliott's family situation affect his emotions?

  3. 3

    What responsibilities come with protecting someone vulnerable?

Take it further

Family Experience

Activity

Write a simple 'helping someone new' checklist: observe, ask, listen, help safely.

Real-world challenge

Include someone who seems left out in one activity this week.

Parent follow-up

Talk about empathy while still reinforcing that children should involve trusted adults in real dangerous situations.

Discovery

Where It Sits

Generation

Gen x childhoodMillennial childhood

Mood

EmotionalAdventurousFamily night

Life stage

Growing upFamily adversity

Lesson tags

EmpathyFriendshipFamily bondsResponsibilityOutsidersGrief

Genre

Science fictionFamilyAdventure